Living in Alignment with your Soul's Purpose

I have spoken with many people who feel like they are searching for meaning in their lives. They believe there is more to Life than what they are currently experiencing but don’t know how to connect to it. So they set out on a journey to discover their Soul’s Purpose in this Lifetime so that they can feel more fulfilled, have greater abundance, live with more peace and joy. Yes, it is actually quite possible to discover your own unique Soul Energy Signature, your Soul’s Plan for this lifetime, and the Path that guides you on your Soul’s intended journey. Interestingly, it is often sitting right in front of us, unrecognized and unacknowledged.

How to Know Your Soul’s Purpose

There are quite a few ancient and also newer approaches that provides this insight - astrology, numerology, your Human Design, Tarot, fingerprint analysis. (I have written an ebook that provides exercises using several of these approaches to discover your Soul’s Purpose, get it HERE.) When I pieced mine together, it was a palm on the forehead moment - not at all surprising to me. But knowing is not enough - the key is to be so very connected to it that you embody it - you are in FLOW, living life in ease and grace, in abundance with passion and gratitude, and can’t WAIT to jump out of bed in the morning to start the day! Letting go of overwhelm, stress, judgement, self doubt. Replacing it with CONFIDENCE, INNER PEACE, PASSION and JOY. It is a way of BEING in the world, a mode of consciousness. The biggest and most telling signs that you have found it are you: living your life intentionally and with passion; using your talents and gifts in ease and grace; enjoying every moment!

Stepping onto your Soul’s Purpose Path

The benefits I’ve noted above are actual, not myths. We create our own realities through our beliefs and perceptions so if we believe we are Meant for Joy and Abundance in this lifetime then we can reprogram our brains to call it into our experience. Our Purpose is not outside of ourselves - it IS our Self. Once you have the clarity of your Soul’s Expression in this lifetime, then stepping onto your Soul’s Purpose Path is simply a matter of consciously living in alignment with it - pursuing those experiences that tickle your fancy, peak your interest, or bring you joy. Making daily decisions to express your Soul’s true nature of peace and love. Setting an intension and then remaining open to its fulfillment. You - consciously creating your own reality!

Ready to take the plunge into your greatest Life Adventure? Let’s chat! I can help you connect to and embody your Soul’s Purpose - to step into the life you were MEANT to live!

Abundance energy in 2020 - and More Opposition Too

In 2020, Jupiter - the Abundance planet - moves into practical Capricorn in a numerological Master Builder year - 4. This indicates we can expect growth in many areas that make up the foundation of our lives - finances, career, family. In the same year, Saturn moves conjunct with Pluto for most of the year which forbodes opposition between the practical and ephemeral. CafeAstrology.com says this about the Saturn-Pluto conjunction: Whereas Pluto seeks increased power and control through our undertakings, career, and reputation or status in the sign of Capricorn, Saturn seeks perfection, increased performance, and proof that we’re worth something. Saturn attempts to clean up some of the excesses or obsessions of Pluto in Capricorn. Pluto tears down, Saturn builds, and in this sense, it’s a powerful combination. This transit may demand hard work at remodeling and renovating our careers and goals and encourages us to release what no longer serves us.

So how can you best navigate this intense landscape? Here are a few practical actions.

(1) Keep calm and carry on. There are several ways to keep your equilibrium on the daily: Take an imaginary journey to your Happy Place. Meditate on joy and inner peace. Breathe deeply and often. Go to the spa or enjoy a bubble bath soak. Take a walk in nature. Stay aware of the thoughts scrambling through your brain and choose positivity.

(2) Keep your eyes on the prize. If you don’t have a positive vision for your life to guide or inspire you annually, now is a great time to establish one! When we feel like we are On Purpose and pursuing our passions or a mission that is important to us, our Big Why helps to keep us focused on what is most important to us and can help keep us resilient during rocky times. Don’t have a process or ritual? Check out my blog on the subject HERE and send me an email using the link at the bottom of the page and I’ll share an ebook on mine with you.

(3) Maintain your Positivity. Reject fear, anxiety, self-criticism, judgement. LAUGH! Seek inspiration and things that make you smile or Light You Up. Sing, dance, create, play with children, take a walk in nature. Check out a new podcast, do something off of your bucket list, try something new. The health benefits of positivity and maintaining low stress levels are off the charts. Take care of yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally!

(4) Hang out with your Tribe. Don’t go it alone! Seek company with like-minded individuals either online or in person. Join a gym, a Meet-up, a book group, a Facebook group. Get involved!

Above all else, keep in mind that Thoughts Become Things - Think Joy, Beauty and Love!

To find out more about your own personal energy and path in 2020, schedule a call HERE.

What to do when you feel Stuck or Unfulfilled in Life

Feelings of unfulfillment or feeling stuck are typically good indications that you are ready for a Big Change in your life. I’m not talking about moving the furniture around in the living room. This is also more than a job change or new outfit. I’m talking about the feeling that there has got to be more to life than this. I’m talking about taking a step towards your Highest Purpose on your life path.

You could actually go buy that new outfit, or move into a new house to heal that feeling of unfulfillment. Doing so might help with that feeling, for a few minutes or maybe even months. But if you want to pursue a more permanent fix, then you’ll need to seek alignment to your Soul’s Purpose in order to heed that calling.

So what is that Purpose? Path? Mission? How do you know if you’re in alignment with it? Are you confused about what is the “right” thing to do? The “right” path to choose? So much pressure! Your path for the rest of your life! This actually does not have to be such a weighty choice. Do you believe that you as a Soul chose to be here in this incarnation, in this time and place? Born into this body, to these parents, and these circumstances? What do you think you were meant to learn from these beginnings? What choices have you made along the way that have brought you to this moment? What new choices, perspectives, and stories are trying to come into your presence?

Here is a different way to think about this big question. WHAT IF there is no right or wrong thing to do? WHAT IF you are ALREADY on your Soul’s Path - and always have been? Try this question instead: “What are you called to IN THIS MOMENT?” What feels good for you to contribute, and to who? What knowledge or skills do you have to offer to someone else who may be in the same place you were at this time last year? What would bring you joy? What would you feel good taking a stand for?

Try this discovery process to hone in on what changes you would make to determine the path that resonates most with you In This Moment:

Play in possibility. Start a journal to use as a container for your inspirations. Journal on what does “fun” look like in your most amazing life? What would bring you joy, satisfaction, gratitude, inner peace? Explore your creativity and imagination. WHAT IF you are only limited by your own self?

Create a Timeline using writing and images. What major events or big impacts have happened in your life? What did you learn or take away from those events? What themes do you see? What patterns? This exercise will show you a story around things you’ve done, learned, enjoyed, not enjoyed. From this place of understanding, what would you want to improve? Learn? Do a better job at? Contribute to the world? What talents do you have that you had taken for granted before now? What are some ways to repackage them in order to add increased meaning to your life?

What is one small step you can take in the direction of your dreams? Take it now, and then the next one. Show yourself that your dreams matter! You have what it takes to make them come into being!

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New Beginnings and Living Intentionally in the New Year

Whatever you do or dream you can do – begin it. Boldness has genius and power and magic in it. – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

I am all about living intentionally so it should come as no surprise that I have established a process I use every year. It is a synthesis of Cynthia Occelli’s Renewal process and John and Missy Butcher’s Lifebook process. Both take a look at the previous year and assess what went well and what remains to have some attention paid to it. Both are a 360 degree look at all aspects of your life but that is where the similarities end.

In any case, I find that taking the time to conduct a retrospective, a clearing and release, and goal or intention-setting for the year gets me clear on not only where I’ve been but also where I want to go. It is not locked in stone but establishes the guardrails that I use throughout the year that keep me On Purpose and in my Flow. It also provides a foundation for celebrating small and large victories and life’s joyful and successful moments.

This practice is particularly powerful for me because it also tells my Inner Critic that I AM COMMITTED TO ME. I MATTER and WHAT I WANT IN LIFE MATTERS. Who wouldn’t want to start their year with such a powerful affirmation? !! And refer back to it often to celebrate your intentions for yourself, your relationships, and your BEINGNESS in the world. This practice turns my Inner Critic into a powerful and more positive ally as I show myself every day that every moment and every step takes me that much closer to my dreams!

I encourage you to also start this kind of a practice. It empowers you to live your best life, is life affirming of your highest goals and intentions, and is much more powerful and effective than a New Year’s Resolution!!

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How to create an empowering vision board by Jack Canfield

Jack Canfield, America’s #1 Success Coach, is founder of the billion-dollar book brand Chicken Soup for the Soul® and a leading authority on Peak Performance and Life Success. If you’re ready to jump-start your life, make more money, and have more fun and joy in all that you do, get FREE success tips from Jack Canfield now at: www.FreeSuccessStrategies.com

 

Vision board ideas and examples are incredibly useful and inspirational when making your own. I’ve designed this post to show you how to make your own vision boards and how to use them to maximize your visualization practice!

Also known as dream boards, these simple devices are one of the most valuable visualization tools available to you. The inspirational collages serve as your image of the future – a tangible example, idea or representation of where you are going. They should represent your dreams, your goals, and your ideal life.

Your brain will work tirelessly to achieve the statements you give your subconscious mind. And when those statements are the affirmations and images of your goals, you are destined to achieve them! – Jack Canfield

By representing your goals with pictures and images you will actually strengthen and stimulate your emotions because your mind responds strongly to visual stimulation…  and your emotions are the vibrational energy that activates the Law of Attraction. The saying “A picture is worth a thousand words,” certainly holds true here.

If you have already defined your dreams, it’s time to illustrate them visually.

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What is a Vision Board?

A vision board is a visualization tool which refers to a board of any sort used to build a collage of words and pictures that represent your goals and dreams. 

They can be bought from a professional supplier or made with cork or poster boards. By placing visual representations of your goals into one space, you can easily visualize them frequently. Remembering to look at them daily and imagine them as if they have already come true is one of the best ways to activate the Law of Attraction.

How Do You Use a Vision Board for Goal-Setting?

The best way to achieve your goals is to keep them top of mind, so you’re always looking for ways to move yourself closer to them – and a vision board is the perfect tool to help you do that.

By putting a vision board somewhere you can see it every day, you will prompt yourself to visualize your ideal life on a regular basis. And that’s important because visualization activates the creative powers of your subconscious mind and programs your brain to notice available resources that were always there but escaped your notice. Through the Law of Attraction, visualization also magnetizes and attracts to you the people, resources, and opportunities you need to achieve your goal.

By adding a visualization practice to your daily routine, you will naturally become more motivated to reach your goals. You’ll start to notice you are unexpectedly doing things that move you closer to your ideal life. Suddenly, you find yourself volunteering to take on more responsibility at work, speaking out at staff meetings, asking more directly for what you want, and taking more risks in your personal and professional life – and experiencing bigger pay-offs. 

It’s pretty cool stuff!

 

How to Create a Vision Board that Depicts the Future You Wish to Create

Find pictures that represent or symbolize the experiences, feelings, and possessions you want to attract into your life, and place them in your board. Have fun with the process! Use photographs, magazine cutouts, pictures from the Internet–whatever inspires you. Be creative. Include not only pictures, but anything that speaks to you.

Consider including a picture of yourself on your board. If you do, choose one that was taken in a happy moment. You will also want to post your affirmations, inspirational words, quotations, and thoughts here. Choose words and images that inspire you and make you feel good.

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You can use your vision board to depict goals and dreams in all areas of your life, or in just one specific area that you are focusing on.  Keep it neat, and be selective about what you place in your vision board. It’s a good idea to avoid creating a cluttered or chaotic board… you don’t want to attract chaos into your life.

Use only the words and images that best represent your purpose, your ideal future, and words that inspire positive emotions in you. There is beauty in simplicity and clarity. Too many images and too much information will be distracting and harder to focus on.

If you are working on visualizing and creating changes in many areas of your life, then you may want to use more than one vision board. You might use one for your personal goals and another for career and financial goals. You might even want to keep your career vision board at the office or on your desk as a means of inspiration and affirmation. Whatever you decide to do, learning how to make a vision board – and using it regularly – is the best way to visualize your ideas and dreams to fruition.

Here’s My Simple 6-Step Process for Making Empowering Vision Boards:

1) Create a list of goals you’d like to achieve in the next year

In order to visualize your goals, first you need to know what they are. Spend some time getting clear on exactly what you want your ideal life to look like, and what you need to accomplish in the next 12 months to launch you closer to your goals.

Chapter 2: “Be Clear Why You’re Here,” and Chapter 3: “Decide What You Want,” in my best-selling book, The Success Principles, can help you with this process.

You can also use this simple 4-step meditation technique to meditate for clarity and intuition.

2) Collect a bundle of old magazines with beautiful pictures

If you’re not a magazine reader or currently don’t have any magazines at home, ask your friends to give you any they no longer want. You should also be able to pick some up for just a dollar or two per magazine at your local thrift store. Or you could check out your local recycling depot. Ours has a “free stuff” corner where you can pick up all the magazines you could ever want at zero cost. Maybe yours does, too?

3) Find pictures that represent your goals and inspire you

Schedule a couple hours one evening or weekend to go through the magazines and cut out pictures that represent your goals and speak to your heart in some meaningful way.  Fun tip: The last time my staff and I made vision boards at my office, we turned up the radio and had a little musical party going on as we cut out our images, which made it a very vibrant, fun setting to visualize our goals!

When looking for images in the magazines, look for those that immediately make you say, “Yes! That is what I want in my life!” They don’t have to be physical objects or literal interpretations of what you want in your life. Instead, focus on how the images make you FEEL.

For example, if you’d like to move to a home with waterfront property, don’t worry if you can’t find a picture of your perfect “dream home.” Perhaps a picture of an idyllic ocean sunset will be enough to inspire you. Or if you’d like to attract a new romantic partner into your life, instead of hunting for a picture of a man or woman who meets your physical ideal, find a picture that represents love to you – an image of two people holding hands, or even a picture of a heart, for example.

4) Make a collage out of your photos

Once you have collected enough photos, it’s time to make your vision board! Go to your local craft or dollar store and buy a large piece of construction or poster paper. A corkboard or large piece of paper would work as well. Then glue, tack, or tape your pictures to the paper or corkboard in an arrangement that is visually pleasing to you.

5) Add motivational “affirmation words” that represent how you want to FEEL

Your vision of your ideal life shouldn’t be focused on “stuff” so much as on how you want to FEEL. For this reason, I like to add words to my vision board that describe how I want to feel on a daily basis – such as: “joyful,” “abundant,” “powerful,” “fearless,” “loved,” “strong,” “healthy,” “loving,” and “financially free.”

Take some time to create a list of words that describe how YOU want to feel. You can either search for these words in your magazines or write them yourself. Then add them to your vision board in a visually attractive way.

6) Take a few moments to contemplate your vision board every day

To get the full benefit from your vision board, it’s important for you to place it somewhere you can see it every day. I recommend you take a few minutes to look over your vision board at least once or twice a day. I like to review my vision board right before I do a guided visualization, so my goals are top of mind as I train my mind to attract what I truly want into my life. I also like to review it every night before I go to sleep, in order to prompt my sub-conscious mind to come up with new ideas while I’m sleeping on how to achieve my goals. That way, I wake up in the morning bursting with motivation to succeed – and am far more likely to notice and act on opportunities that will bring me closer to my goals.

How to Use Your Dream Board

Try keeping your vision board on the nightstand next to your bed. Leave it standing in an open position as often as you are comfortable with, and spend time each morning and evening visualizing, affirming, believing, and internalizing your goals.

The time you spend visualizing in the evening just before bed is especially powerful. The thoughts and images that are present in your mind during the last forty-five minutes before going to sleep are the ones that will replay themselves repeatedly in your subconscious mind through¬out the night, and the thoughts and images that you begin each day with will help you to create a vibrational match for the future you desire.

As some time goes by, and your dreams begin to manifest, look at those images that represent your achievements, and feel gratitude for how well the Law of Attraction is working in your life. Acknowledge that it is working. Don’t remove the pictures or images that represent the goals you’ve already achieved.  Achievement of the goals in your vision board are powerful visual reminders of what you have already consciously and deliberately attracted into your life.

I recommend you write down the date you created your dream board. The universe loves speed, and you will be amazed at just how quickly the Law of Attraction responds to your energy, commitment, and desires. Much like a time capsule, this board will document your personal journey, your dreams, and your achievements for that particular year. It will become a record of your growth, awareness, and expansion that you will want to keep and reflect back upon in years to come.

It’s a good idea to create a new inspiration board each year.  As you continue to grow, evolve and expand, your dreams will too. Your vision board is meant to be kept and cherished. They chronicle not only your dreams, but your growth and achievements.

Final thoughts on using your completed vision board:

  • Look at your dream board often and feel the inspiration it provides.

  • Hold it in your hands and really internalize the future it represents.

  • Read your daily affirmations and inspirational words aloud.

  • See yourself living in that manner.

  • Feel yourself in the future you have designed.

  • Believe it is already yours.

  • Be grateful for the good that is already present in your life.

  • Acknowledge any goals you have already achieved.

  • Acknowledge the changes you have seen and felt.

  • Acknowledge the presence of God in your life.

  • Acknowledge the Law of Attraction at work in your life.

  • Look at it just before going to bed and first thing upon rising.

I hope I’ve inspired you to create your own vision board. Your ability to visualize your dreams will serve as a catalyst in their creation.

Overcoming the "not enough" belief

When our own self doubt and lack of self acceptance is the primary limiting belief in our lives, it holds us back from stepping into our powerful True Selves.  We "play small" and are reluctant to be visible, to step up or speak up, or to extend ourselves into unknown territory where we feel there's just that one more thing I need to make myself "better" before I'm "ready".

When this is the dominating energy in our lives, it is important to discover where it has come from so that this feeling of inadequacy can be healed and strengthened.  What childhood event or events caused you to feel like you were not enough?  Did you live with criticism? Guilt? Shame? Lack? Neglect? Abuse?  What are the thoughts you have that repeat and re-enforce this belief?

If we are to live into our Fullest Expression of our Selves, we need to heal this wound and fill the space with self love and acceptance.  Can you see yourself as the Queen or King that you are?

There are several techniques to help you to do this, I have provided a list of resources below.  This is a profound but critically important un-learning.  Practice until your cup of self-love is overflowing!

Self Doubt Elimination Exercises:

  • Tell yourself I LOVE YOU in the mirror each morning.  Explain to your reflection all the reasons why you are beautiful and amazing. Be sincere and look yourself in the eye.  Tell your reflection I LOVE YOU in each mirror you encounter throughout the day.

  • Make two columns on a piece of paper. In the first column, write out a list of all the things you tell yourself because you believe you are not enough, right now, as you are.  In the column across from this list, write the opposite statement in the positive.  For example, "I don't want to go to that wine and painting event with Sally because I don't know how to paint and my pictures would probably be awful."  Turns into "I wonder if I have a talent for painting that I didn't know about? Wouldn't it be fun to have some wine and get creative?" When you catch yourself having one of the self doubt thoughts, acknowledge you are doing it and think of three affirming things you could tell yourself instead.

  • Visualize yourself as a Queen or King.  Find or draw a picture of one and put your face in it. What are the character attributes this person would have that you would admire? Write them down on the picture.  Visualize how this character would think and act, what would they do? Take a day and play the part!

  • Write out several positive present tense affirmations.  Read them out loud every morning. Post them up where you can see them and read them often throughout the day.

Be sure to notice how your Way of Being in the world shifts when you practice ENOUGHNESS! Notice how your practice spills into other areas of your life such as money and relationships. Celebrate your more empowered Self! I CELEBRATE YOU!